As parents we are blamed. not trained â€" parenting is one of the last stands of the amateur. Korean woman seeks writers from schools very happy to write to you on behalf of the students of my school and eight The Enos! difficult job we will ever have is being a parent. Three parents con- tacted me and two are attending our weekly meetings. I am living in Seoul, the capital of my country. And I am one of the staff of the student council of my school which has an enrollment of about 2,000 students with ages ranging from 12 to 18. 1 am also a leader of student language club in Seoul which consists of some English teachers and their students who are interested in English language. As volunteer leader of Parent Concern, I would like to thank you and Doreen Livingstone for the outstanding article “Parent Concern into fourth year'l December 13 Liberal. Through the classes of English and world history, we are much taught of your country which is the greatest nation in the world. Letters rDrpner y-I Hi, at the first I am By many facts and 223-9651 1807 LAWRENCE AVE. E aLEharmécy "r ï¬g $55." FveeShooAmereSemoe Mayfaw‘sexpenenoed deco raters van come to your home or ofï¬ce la day 0' evenng appantments wuthoul chatge. Buy the material only at "2 price, and let Mayfair custom make your drapes with their regular top quality custom making at great savings Modern and efficient workroom. Fully skilled staff. Our custom made drapes requrre careful indwldual workmanship and hand pressrng, 5441 YONGE ST. (at Finch) For a Day or Evening Appointment Call Your Nearest Location Today. Parent Concern article 'outstanding’, she says 751-1574. ON ALL STOCK DRAPERY FABRICS We can often gain great insight into our relationships if we really listen to our young children talking to Teddy or playing “Mommy and Daddy" or our older child's (especially our teenagers) “you don‘t talk with me, you talk at me. No one really listens to how I feel." Family life lays the foundation for how we feel as a person and how As mothers and fathers we should each take a long, close look at our parenting and at our- selves. Del-vanes and installa- nons done eflico’enuy and motqssonalty by Mayfaur's fleet. All our work vs guaranteed knowledge, we students would like to know more about your country and recent condition by our direct communication Then many of us would like to make friends in your country by assistance of you,.by your newspaper. So I sincerely hope that you will find some space to print my request in your esteemed paper. And all of us would be much glad if we can hear from you. from friends in Canada. We do welcome any age and any sex as our friends, and we promise that we can be good friends and we will show it. I hope this kind of direct communication between friends of similar ages 1187 HURONTARIO Mi§sissauga 274-2579 Huge stocks Available Mayfair collects top quality fabrics trom around the world and keeps a large inventory on hand for your selection. Mayiau's modem head ofï¬ce. factory and showtoom on Keele Stveel Ensuves you 0‘ beautiful hand hmshed draperies, Whete indivvdual attenuon IS always given We -should show our children the same respect we would show a friend. we cope wigh lifg If a child lives with approval he will learn to like himself. The need to change and adapt is one of the endless challenges of being a parent. What do we need to improve our relationships and help us cope more effectively with stress? Reading? Parent Concern has a display of books at the Richmond Hill Library during the month of January. will help both to learn each other’s country. I also think we might have fun in swapping items in hobby colleC» tions. And in addition, we may discuss about students life, various topics of everyday life and current international problems. I wait your assistance. and many kind letters from Canada. Thank you for your reading and kind con- sideration. 4699 KEELE ST. S. of Steeles. 661-2131 2673 EGLINTON AVE. E atEerley Miss Youngsun Moon, C.P.0 Box 3834. Seoul, Korea 267-8297 3m; Courses? Some could be based on the books “Parent Effectiveness Training“ by Thomas Gordon and Dreikur‘s (The Richmond Hill- Thornhill Area Family Services. 884-9148, is sponsoring a course ‘ ‘ (‘ h i l d r e n (Thallenge‘fl Courses in tran- sactional analysis also could be beneficial. What else is needed â€" personal, marital or family counselling at the Family Services in our region, lectures, Parent Concern, or a comâ€" bination of the help available in our com- munity? “.(‘ommuni'calion in the Family". February 7 to March 28). So often our recurrent theme is a longing for a change in another person in the family relationship. What are' we preparéd l0 do about changing ourselves? If you feel that your child may be emotionally or physically harmed as a result of your attitude. words or actions, please call me at 884-3503. I would like to be a friend. Richmond Hill. ED. NOTE â€" Parent (‘oncern's volunteer leader and group members use first names only to encourage free discussion. Joyce, l was pleased to see your editorial (January 3) noting from statistical reports the achievements of our York Regional Police Force. We shoU/d be proud of our police It is encouraging to see the press commenting favorably on our police force at a time when public servants in all levels of government seem to be receiving an excess of criticism. much of it unjust and un- founded. It should be evident to all of us in York Region that our police force is as great as one would find anywhere. and we should not need statistical comparisons with other police forces to convince ourselves. This greatness is being demonstrated to us constantly in its purposes, its courage, its moral responsibility. and in the tenor and results of its daily operations As the caption of your editorial indicated “York Regional police should be proud of achievementsâ€, I would add that residents of York Region should be proud of their York Region police. Lorne Greenwood 43 Wild (‘herry Lane Thornhill I take exception to Dawn Osmond's letter last week that Lou Wainwright wouldn‘t have got the votes he did for regional councillor if Afternoon meets would hamper his attendance As a resident of Ward 3, I would like to voice my objection to the outcome; of the past two council meetings and would urge the residents of this town to sit up and take notice of what is hap- pening before it is too late. Ward 3 residents, do you realize that if Mr. Wainwright's motion remains, your councillor. John Birchall, will only be able_ to atend half of the council meetings in the next two years? Mr. Birchall has done an outstanding job for Ward 3 and Richmond Hill over the past four years and has had a perfect attendance record at both council and all committee meetings. However, as a coun- cillor's salary is in- sufficient to live on, he and other members of (‘ouncil must work at other jobs during the day and are therefore unable to attend afternoon meetings. - Dawn should see the light, cduncil candidate advises people knew he wanted afternoon council meetings. And I also take ex- ception to the fact that I question the motfves of Wainwright, Rowe, Corcoran, Barrow and Amos in supporting this move, particularly the latter two. The majority of the citizens in Richmond Hill are unable to attend an afternoon meeting. They campaigned on a platform of open, responsible government. (‘ould their motive be to limit citizen participation in this town? If so. what are they up SHOPPERS WORLD ALBION SHOPPERS WORLD BRAMPTON HILLCREST MALL Albion Rd. at Klpllng Hwy. 103! Avo. Yong. 8L. Rbhmond HIII “- p.‘n Save 22% to 27% June Kirby. 320 Markham Road. 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Wéll, let me wake you up, my dear. “The’council was elected by the people to represent us the best way possible. I couldn't care less when they had their meetings as long as it's in the best interest for Rich- mond Hill and it doesn't cost us, the taxpayers. The reason most municipalities have af- lernoon council meetings is so they don't have to Individually tailored professional guidance in Drum Set Performance for the Beginner, Intermediate, Advanced and Professional playei. ORecord Library IRecording Studios OSpeciaI programmes for younger children and mature adults ODrum Set Playing Forums OPercussion Clinics °Rock and Jazz WorkshOps ODrum Chart Workshops ONTARIO COLLEGE OF PERCUSSION Januaryâ€"Fehtuary Enrollment pmesteadOak 12:30 TD 8:00 P.M., TUESDAY TO FRIDAY AND ALL DAY SATURDAY Emailing students from around the world SAVINGS $8 50% COMPLETE FACILITIES I 'Tape Library Idios 'Audio Visual Aids 9185 YONGE ST. 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